Who has influenced me the most? I am struggling with the answer to the preliminary question. Of course my family has played a role in shaping me to be who I am today, but I think that is true for everyone. I don’t think that an individual member of my family could be my “role-model” either. Collectively, my family has given me determination and diligence, but they haven’t defined me. For me, it’s hard to pick a specific person because I don’t even know who I am, so how can I know who has influenced me? In order for me to identify an influence in my life, I have to first look at the qualities that I admire and the qualities of myself that have been shaped by another person, but that’s hard for me. I asked my sister if she thinks that she thinks that she influences me and she said, “ummm, every day I guess.” What does that mean? Only adding to my confusion. I asked her because we’re pretty competitive and we both work-hard, but I don’t look up to her as a role-model because I also see the qualities in her that I want to avoid. Maybe I am too pessimistic. This question has been bothering me for the past two days and I can’t find an answer. I am probably over-analyzing this, but isn’t what this class is somewhat about? Is it conceited if I say that I, myself, am my greatest influence? I am the one that gives myself the most criticism and pushes myself to do more than is required. I am also the one who lives my life and learns through situations that influence me for the good and the bad. I don’t know. I guess I'll ponder this some more. Mr. Murray, sorry for not really answering the forum question.
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Mr. Murray
10/8/2012 12:56:55 pm
Mary,
You answered this forum with honesty and with integrity. There are so many people that come into our lives in the present, future, and past that makes us who we are. But, there is no doubt that the shaping of our lives comes from a genuine sense of self-worth. You are a very talented young woman that will continue to see these blessings as you transition from NDCL to Colllege.
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Eric Knapik
10/6/2012 03:48:10 pm
I feel that the most influential person in my family and around me is my mother, though not all the time do I want her around she pushes me to do better. I sent her the text but she did not respond or say anything about it at home, I think our crappy cell phone service lost the text so maybe she will get it in a year or two or someone else got it. Im not sure what to think about this, angry about it a little. It makes me a little sad so i probably wont think about it anymore.
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Kyle Kruse
10/7/2012 03:03:13 am
The reaction of the recipient upon receiving my text message was one of gratitude. My brother, Kevin, is currently in Las Vegas, so I am happy that he even found time to reply. I was certain he would answer back because I am confident in our relationship. We have such a strong bond that I know he will always be there for me. His response was appreciative, “Thank you very much Kyle, love you and call you later!” I look forward to our conversation and am eager to hear about his trip to Las Vegas. His confirming words only strengthen our connection, which was tested when he left for Loyola University of Chicago. However, I am convinced that in my departure for college next fall, we will be able to remain as close in our brotherhood and friendship.
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britt grabowski
10/7/2012 03:05:59 am
my most influential non famiy member would be my dance teacher Noreen. She has known me since i was able to walk and has grown to become a major part in my life. I couldnt imagine doing ballet without her. She gives me her time and committement and teaches me everything she has learned. I am currently in Grade 6 for Cecchetti which is a version of ballet originated in France. Cecchetti consists of various patterns, terms, and sequences that have to be performed during an demonstrational exam. Everything is in French and has to be translated over to English. Noreen has given me the opportunity to succeed in this style. She has given me privates for years with intricate training and time just to get to the next grade. I owe everything to her.
I texted Noreen a little message and she responded saying that i was one of her most committed and talented students she has at in studio. She said that she loves me and enjoys my presence at the studio.
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Emily Boyle
10/7/2012 04:40:45 am
I wasn't really sure who the most influential person in my life is. I feel like I've lived two lives - life before senior year and life now. Before, I wasn't influenced by anyone, just myself. My parents tried to influence me, but I wouldn't really let them, so I didn't think that it was appropriate to text them. I didn't text my best friend Mikayla because she was sitting next to me and it would have been awkward and she would have responded with a really weird and awkward text like "shpanx i lurv you".
Instead, I texted my boyfriend because he's really the one that keeps me out of trouble and really encourages me to mend and strengthen the bond I have with my family and friends (especially Mikayla). He gives me the confidence that I've never really had before this year. He texted me back thanking me for being his best friend. Later, he showed up to my work with flowers and an amazing letter. I don't care if we stay together forever or not, but right now, he influences my life more than anybody else.
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Sheila Smith
10/7/2012 06:04:50 am
Well i've had many influential people in my life--friends and family both. So I texted about four or five people, telling them each how important they are to me and how much I cared about them. Each person replied with an equally kind and caring message. One person I texted was my very close friend who is currently in college. I was really glad she replied because it's nice to know that even though she is away at school, we're still close friends. She told me that she misses me and she's glad we're still close friends. It's important to me to keep up friendships and relationships with people even if we don't go to the same school or live near each other. I want to stay in contact with my friends and sisters even if we're not in similar places in life. I try to surround myself with people are who are positive influences and I really enjoyed telling various people how much they meant to me and have impacted me.
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Amanda Zbinovec
10/7/2012 06:20:48 am
The most influential person in my life would probably be my uncle. He is the most strongest, faithful, and happy person I have known. We have been through so much together. He has been me rock during some of my tough times. When I sent him that text message I was hoping for a thoughtful responce, but all he said was "awwww and ditto". I was kind of shocked that it was so brief, but he doesn't like to text that much anyway and he probably was working. So the next time I see him he will probably say something more thoughtful. It doesn't really matter, I just wanted him to know how much he means to me and how much I care about him.
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Jacqueline DiCillo
10/7/2012 06:53:09 am
The most important person in my life right now is my mom. I would be absolutely lost without her. I texted her letting her know how much I appreciate everything she does for me and I love her incredibly. Her response was "Awww. That's so sweet. Thank you. I love you too. Crying at work. Is everything okay?" She was probably worried that something was wrong because I don't tell her that as often as I should or as much as she deserves to hear it. I just assumes she knows, but it always a great heartwarming reminder to hear that you are loved and appreciated.
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Mike Boehm
10/7/2012 08:32:31 am
Overall, the most influential person in my life is my mother. However, the person that I texted was a friend of mine from another school. Lately she's been the only person I can go to when I need someone to be there for me. Her response to my text was "Aww! This is so sweet. I'm so glad that I met you, this text honestly made my day so much better!". When I recieved this response, I felt happy about myself because I made a positive impact on an important person's day.
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Mikayla Bucci
10/7/2012 08:44:24 am
I sent my text to a best friend who moved to North Carolina after sophomore year. Almost always, she took my friendship for granted and right before she left, we got in a huge fight over it. She often ditched me for people who didn't even like her. I've talked to her here and there but we used to talk every day. Her reaction to the text was "...But I haven't been there for you in so long. I am so sorry. I love you." I didn't even think she'd respond.
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Kaitlin O'Connell
10/7/2012 08:58:23 am
Although my family has had a major impact on my life, I texted one of my best friends. She has been there for me through everything and has the biggest influence on my life hands down. I thank God that He put a person like this in my life because without her I honestly don't know where I would be. When I texted her she replied right away with "Awh baby! I love you <3". I could tell that message brightened her day. Later in the day I saw her in the hallway at school and she gave me the biggest hug which made my day a little better. The next time someone I know is having a bad day I'm going to send them a message like this.
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Darcy Loviscek
10/7/2012 09:24:16 am
Many people have had an influence on me, but the most influential person in my life is probably my dad. My dad and I have always had a really strong relationship. I can talk to him about almost anything and he always listens, no matter how busy he is. My dad is a very positive person. Even when I know he is stressed with work or something else, he remains optimistic and still tries to cheer me up if I am having a rough day, too. He has always taught me to focus on the good and not to dwell on the bad and even if it is difficult sometimes, I really try to follow his advice. Of course my dad and I may have disagreements at times, but he supports me in everything I do and I know I can rely on him whenever need be. My dad and I actually had a small argument the night before I sent the text in class. In my text, I told him how I truly appreciate all he does for me and that I love him, even if we had a small fight, and that I was sorry. He responded by saying that he loves me too and he will try to be more understanding in the future. When I got home and talked to him later that day, he gave me a hug and said that the text I sent him really made his day. Although it was just a simple text, it meant a lot to both of us and made our relationship that much stronger.
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Nikki Franchini
10/7/2012 10:00:08 am
The most influential person in my life is & always will be my mom. Mostly everyone who is close with me knows that my mom is my best friend and the type of relationship we have is one of a kind. With that being said, I texted her and her response was (3 hours after I sent my text)...
"Sorry boobie. Had 2 kids get into a fist fight this morning, a freshman passing out in the gym locker room from getting choked by his best friend, 8 subs in the building, and a fire drill! Just saw this. I am soooo happy that u r my daughter. Thanks for always being my sunshine baby girl. I love you more than anything."
This text is a perfect example why she's is the most influential person in my life. After everything that she deals with during the day, she still let me know how much she loved me. The text made me very happy.
:)
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Emily Amendola
10/7/2012 10:41:12 am
phone is taken away -__-
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Mr. Murray
10/8/2012 10:00:48 am
Well, thanks for being such an inspirational person to so many at school, cheerleading, and making a huge impact in my Christian Leadership class.
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Jimmy Vanek
10/10/2012 07:07:10 am
hehehe
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Anna Martin
10/7/2012 10:47:51 am
The most influential person in my life is my dad. He always supports me in everything I do. He is intelligent, and even though he seems like a tough guy, he is actually a big softy. I aspire to be like him in every aspect of my life. I don't know how I would survive without him calming me down, or understanding what it is like to be the oldest of four siblings. He knows what I go through, and realizes the pressure there is to set a good example for the rest of my siblings.
It was a hit or miss to whether or not he would respond. Although he didn't respond, when I saw him later that day I knew he received the message and appreciated it. Neither of us had to say anything, it was a mutual understanding of "thank you", and "I love you too".
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Maddie Chandler
10/7/2012 11:06:33 am
One of the most influential people in my life is my 21 year old cousin that I have been close with for as long as I can remember. I look up to her and know that she will always be there for me no matter what and give me advice whenever I need it. Although she lives in Cincinnati and I see her probably twice a year at the most, I consider her to be very important to me. I sent her a text telling her I knew it was a little random but that I am truly thankful for her and that I can always count on her and she replied.. "Aww that is SO nice of you to say! It literally made me tear up! I'm always here for you and love you so much cuz! I can't wait to see you in December!!" I could tell she was touched by how influential I find her to be and it made me happy to see that.
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Anika Prots
10/7/2012 11:14:27 am
The most influential person in my life is my grandpa...unfortunately he passed away the summer before freshman year and sending him a text telling him what he means to me is just not something I can do. With this being senior year it has been especially hard because I want him here with me and not having him just sucks, there's no other way I can say it. So I text my best friend, because she's like my grandpa in the way that she loves me for all my faults and failures but looks past that to show me my talents. So when I text her she replied with this "Dear An, i love you soooo much. You're my sister and future roommate. I'm always here for you and i'll never judge you. don't ever leave me. I need you.
God loves you
Jesus loves you
i love you" we have told each other that next year we'll be roommates at JCU and we've got it all planned out but as it comes time to filling out applications and making descions I fear that maybe things will change and JCUight not be the place for me. All I can do now is pray for Hod's grave to help me find my fit but to also keep the relationships that mean something to me strong.
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Jill Rosegger
10/7/2012 11:16:37 am
The most influential person in my life is my mom. She's my best friend and I wouldn't be who I am today without her. Her reaction to my text was "aww what a nice surprise! The feeling is mutual." I don't tell her enough how much she means to me and I don't know what I'm going to do without her next year. She's everything to me and I appreciate all that she does for me.
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Kinzie Trotta
10/7/2012 12:35:27 pm
I thought a lot about why I am the way I am and who or what is truly responsible for the me that I am becoming. What I have realized is that the biggest influences that have shaped who I am today are situations from the past and people who I am no longer even in contact with. So I decided to "text" my brother, not because he has been the most influential but because he is the most important. I didn't have my phone this past week so I actually just told him in person. He was like "what?" and tried to play it off but his smile said it all. I think I should tell him how important he is more often.
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Chris shkil
10/8/2012 01:30:00 am
My most influential person would have to be my mom. Even though I don't get along with her very often she is always there for me and is always trying to do what's best for me, even if I don't like it. I sent her the text but she really isn't very good with cell phones so she hasn't responded or said anything about it to me probably because she doesn't even know she has a text. Even though she hasn't received it I feel like deep down she knows it and is very grateful and loves me very much
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Chris shkil
10/8/2012 01:31:04 am
It makes me feel indifferent really because my mom hasn't gotten the text but I know she probably feels the same so that gives me a sense of gratitude for all that she has done
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Donte Bailey
10/8/2012 02:17:52 am
My older cousin is going through a very hard time in his life right now. When I sent him the text he asking me "what's wrong, are you breaking down?" When I told him what I was doing he began to tear up. I wanted him to know he has helped mold me in the man I am today and even though he doesn't know it he has helped raise me also. I told him is who I looked up to since I was little and I love and then he called me gay
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Teddy Nemunaitis
10/8/2012 03:14:44 am
My sister's reaction to the text was very sincere."Awww. Tnx Bro." was her response. I especially know that it was a sincere thank you from the time that I received it. The text was sent out during first block and I received a text back from her at the very beginning of second block. She actually took the risk of getting caught texting in class to respond to my text. I know if it was me in her position I would never text back during the school day. I think that this represents the equal amount of generosity and gratefulness that we share for each other. I was initially grateful that I received a text back so soon. After sending the first text, a sense of pride and genuine goodness filled my soul. Even if I hadn’t received a text back, I would have still felt good about my action. The text back only confirmed my inner beliefs. This was a great experience!
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Ryan Paul Sebastian Manfredi
10/8/2012 07:41:57 am
I texted an old friend, I haven`t talked to this person in a while and we used to be so close. With the urge to text someone who influenced me the most and made me grow, i texted them "I wanted to just thank you for being such a great friend and always being there and making me into the man i am today." There response was ahhh don`t worry about it no problem. I didn`t know what to think. Do i wish this person wrote more? yes but i`m not going to dwell on that, just know to myself i did a nice thing and it makes me feel good. I feel this exercise was very important and it made a lot of people happy which is all that matters.
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Monica Marcotte
10/8/2012 08:55:28 am
When first asked the question of who has influenced me most in my life, I instantly thought of so many people like my parents, others in my family, and my best friends. I decided to text my grandma. Her and I are very close. She quickly responded saying how much she loved me and is happy she has been such a big part of my life. She was honored that I was willing to say that to her. She has helped me through some hard times in my life, and I know that she will continue to do that. She is just like my best friend. I love her so much and she loves me too.I am so greatful to have her in my life.
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Delaney Hufgard
10/8/2012 09:11:57 am
The most influential person in my life would have to be my mom. we often do not get along well, but she is always pushing me to do my best and has always been there for me. My mom responded to my text by saying that i deserve what she does for me and that she loves me. I have bee lately thanking my parents more often for things they do for me but i forget to thank them for what they do for me everyday. My parents have been so important to me and by seeing how other people's relationships with their parents can be not great. So I really want to be thanking y parents more for what they do for me before i leave for college.
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James Herubin
10/8/2012 09:22:37 am
I know that family could be the most common answer, but I couldn't say that my Dad has been the most influential in my life and is the one person that I could say that, without him I would not be the person who I a today. I texted him and, being technically challenged, took him a while to respond when he did, I had made his day. But he will be the most influential person in my life for the rest of my life. This was probably the first time that I had ever really told him though. I hope that I will never forget how he has shaped me.
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Dom Natale
10/8/2012 09:29:57 am
My brother responded by saying that the text i sent him made his day and that he loves me too. im grateful to have my brother he's guided me to be who i am and is a very important person in my life.
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Jonah Schulz
10/8/2012 09:49:31 am
My brother has always been a huge influence in my life and I let him know and he responded by saying he loves me too and could not have wished for a better brother or friend and that he couldn't wait to see me again.
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Hal Stacho
10/8/2012 09:59:15 am
It was hard to pick one specific person in my life that has influenced me. Of my peers, my best friend Jill has probably influenced me the most. We've been friends for 11 years, and we've definitely had our ups and downs. We actually had a really bad fight last week, and I was furious with her. We usually hang out or talk everyday, but I couldn't even stand seeing her name on my phone after what happened between us. I sent her a text saying how important our friendship is and that I'll always be the friend that she needs. She texted me back and was really touched, and she said that she'd always be there for me too. She also said that the text I sent her was random, which made me laugh because it was a school assignment. She goes to public school and would think that is was weird that we had to text someone for religion homework.
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Jordan Wolf
10/8/2012 10:05:04 am
There are few people who have completely impacted my life. I texted my mother just to remind her how influential she has been, as well as just being able to let out my emotions. Her only response was "Love you!" I did kind of wish she would said more, but I knew she was especially busy at work..
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Julian Wilson
10/8/2012 10:09:11 am
I texted my mom and her reply was along the lines of "you're welcome." She knows me well enough to recognize something out of character for me (not that I don't thank my mom ever, but not really over text messages) and she brought it up later in person. I know we have a strong relationship and I have a ton to thank her for.
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Emily Jereb
10/8/2012 10:16:46 am
Trying to pick one specific person in my life that has influenced me was a challenge because I feel that more than one person has done so. After thinking about it for a while I chose to text my sister, Olivia. I text her saying “thank you for everything you have done for me and always being there. You’re my best friend and even though lately we have been fighting a lot, I love you.” Her response was a reflection of our relationship towards each other saying, “you’re welcome and thank you for everything too, I love you girl.” I was very happy to know she was being genuine about it because lately we have been fighting more than usual about stuff that is not even a big deal, and it was nice to hear that she still loves me. I’m lucky to have a sister that I can be very close with and that most of the time we get along really well.
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marina dolinar
10/8/2012 10:17:26 am
the person that influenced me the most was a friend of mine who has been like a sister to me through this past year, through all the family problems i have encountered. her response was i love u too baby
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Charles Pinzone
10/8/2012 10:53:05 am
My text said: "Thank you for being such a big influence in my life."
The response: "You're welcome, how have I done so? What's up?"
This text was sent to my oldest sibling Maria. Her reaction was interesting to me because she said thank you but wanted to know how she has done so. It started a whole conversation and it was a good experience. She did not known how much she has influenced me over the years and it was nice to talk to her about it. It felt good to connect with my sister in this way.
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Christina Kirchner
10/8/2012 11:03:08 am
Well I thought about all the people that influence me in my life and obviously my close family does but my best friend Marcy was my choice from the beginning. She is someone that I have known since I was very little and we have grown extremely close in the last 5 years of my life. Whenever I have a small or big problem she is there for me with the best and most straight forward advice. She is very smart in different ways and helps me when something is going wrong in my life, We have gone through some of the toughest and best times together, literally everything together. Very influential no doubt. When I texted Marcy it was very natural to me and her response was generously long and had heart felt words in reply that made me feel content with my life for the moment. Feels amazing appreciating someone that appreciates you just as much in return.
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Conor Fogarty
10/8/2012 11:58:21 am
The person who has influenced me the most in my life was, to be honest, decided in a manner of minutes. The speed of this decision prompted me to weigh in all the people who I can certainly credit with influencing the shaping of me. So, I decided to send a text to a man I hadn't seen in a while, and hadn't really thought about thanking until now. He started out as another friend of my mom's that she dated for a while because they knew each other in high school. Overall, the guy turned out to be very funny, enjoyable, and a pleasure to be around. But, I realize that he's done a lot more than that, acting as a figure of good character and having your heart in the right place. He has proved to me that he is someone to be trusted and counted on when that has been a difficult thing to find in my life.
So, it's no surprise that when he responded, it was in kind generosity and thankfulness on his end and that we could count on him any time we need. What was pleasantly surprising was that he needed to ask who was texting him as a switch of phones had erased my name from his contacts. Nonetheless, I hold this man in high regard because he showed that I can let other people in who can help me and my brothers cope with our parents' divorce, because we sometimes cannot talk to our parents themselves about it. It's a comforting, good notion that our family has a friend like him.
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Phil Aquila
10/8/2012 12:35:39 pm
While my whole family has been very influential in my life, I chose to text my friend Alec since I haven't talked to him in awhile. He has a strong sense of morals and is pretty stubborn, and I rely on him alot. I sent "Thanks for being my friend" and his reply was "no problem man."
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Jarman Smith
10/8/2012 12:36:09 pm
As a result of the death of my father, my mother raised me as a "single mom." She was aware of the fact that I would never be able to see or contact my dad in anyway so she took on the role of both my mother and father figure. In this way see is the most influential person in my life. She has attempted to fullfill both parent roles that most children take for granted. After sending her my text, she was extremely grateful and responded in the predicted manner of "thank you so much, I love you too :)." However I know that she really appreciated the text and I feel as though this exercise strenghtened our relationship even more.
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Mr. Murray
10/8/2012 12:53:04 pm
Jarmin,
It took a lot of courage to write as you did. You are an extraordinary son and a role model to so many students at NDCL- whether you see it or not. You are so gifted and should be proud of the talents bestowed upon you from the love of your father and mother.
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Kalen Banks
10/8/2012 01:02:37 pm
A very influential person in my life is my friend Ryland. He graduated from Benecdictine last year and now attends Weber University in Ogden, Utah. I try to talk to him at least once a week. He's been feeling homesick lately so I sent him, "You're my boy. You've always been there for me. Hope everything is going well. You'll be home soon enough. Have a good day I'll talk to you later." He replied "Dude I love you man. Ill be here always no matter what." I think the experience, although rather simple, has made us closer and bettered our friendship.
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Lindsay Griesmer
10/8/2012 01:13:18 pm
There are many influential people in my life, my family, my friends and my teachers are just a few. I think the most influential person though is my sister Allison. My sister has been through a lot. Throughout high school she went through bullying, and depression, as well as happiness and finding love. It didn't matter what she was going through or how stressed she was, she always tried to make time for me. If I was feeling overwhelmed or I couldn't go to my parents for advice, she was always there for me. To be completely honest, these past four years have been tough. I think that without my sister's guidance I wouldn't be the person that I am today. When I texted her today during class today I quickly got a response asking if I actually meant what I had written or if you (Mr. Murray) had assigned me to do it. After telling her I actually meant it she told me that I must not be human since the nurses at the blood drive couldn't find my veins. :)
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Noah Boksansky
10/8/2012 01:46:16 pm
I am blessed to have an amazing amount of influential people in my life. I would have to say that the one of the most influential figures is my grandfather, who died in Fall of 2007. Right now, though, my mother is easily the most influential person in my life. She is a constant force of encouragement, and a rock to lean on during tough times. I thanked her for always being there for me, and having such a large influence on making me who I am today. Her response was "Your welcome, thanks for thinking of me - see you later!" We talked about it at home later, as well.
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Perry Yert
10/8/2012 02:29:29 pm
Most everyone I have encountered in my life whether it has been for a short or extensive period of time have influenced me in some way. However, there are just a few who have immensely impacted my life. There are two people I could not decide between so I ended up texting the both of them. My family is very influential but my mother has made the greatest impact on my life. She responded "Thank you that means a lot to me. I love you!" My mother and I are very similar so often we disagree on certain topics but she has never failed to reassure me that I can go to her with anything and I take my part in following up on it. No matter what situation I am in the first person and almost always the only person I talk to is my mom. The next most influential person would be my boyfriend. He has been in my life for 3 years and although we were not together in between that for a year, he has always been a major part of my life. He responded lovingly and returned the compliment, reminding me that he will always be here for me no matter what. It is very hard to remember at times how influential we are to one another because of the distance with him away at college. I think to recognize someone as being influential is when that person brings to light and emphasizes the person you are and reminds you of what is most important. And of course, to know you have the same effect on them is just as rewarding if not more.
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Mark O'Hara
10/8/2012 09:06:34 pm
So many people have influenced me throughout my life that i found it hard to choose just one. I ended up choosing my sister Kelly because of all my sisters she has been the most influential in my life. I sent her a text thanking her and telling her for being herself. Her reaction to my text was that she thanked me and truly appreciated the fact that i acknowledged her. She said that she didn't realize how much she does for me and now feels pressured to do more. I laughed and said that isn't necessary and we continued have a normal conversation.
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JohnChen
10/8/2012 09:44:16 pm
My response is "?" My friend lived in San Fransisco so he probably thinks I am gay now. But afterward I explain to him he said it is nice to have a friend like me. Sometimes communication brings each other closer.
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Collin Stephens
10/8/2012 09:58:06 pm
I texted my friend and said I loved her and wrote her why I loved her. I also wrote my parents. They were happy but thought I needed something...
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Abby Zahuranec
10/8/2012 10:59:27 pm
I sent my text to my bestfriend because even though they have only been in my life for a few years I don't know where I would be with out him. He has helped me a lot, even though sometimes he has no any idea he is even doing anything. It is the small things that really mean the most to me.. The response to my text was "Where did that come? Is everything okay? I love you too always and Im here for you" I laughed at this, because those who really know me best understand that it can be hard for me at times to tell others how I feel and even though this may not have been much of a response to me it proves how much he knows me.
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Gabbie turner
10/8/2012 11:03:58 pm
I texted a few of my friends and family members to let them know how much I appreciate them and love them. I think te most unique response I got was from my friend Rorey, who came up to me in the hall, hugged me, and said, we did that in theology too! And even though he joked about it in that way, he's still a great friend, and we secretly do appreciate each other.
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Allie Bokar
10/9/2012 01:24:56 am
I have a ton of influential people in my life, so when we were told to text the person with the biggest influence a few people came to mind. The person I texted was my boyfriend and I just thanked him for always being there for me no matter what. He brings out the best in me and even though we irritate each other to no end sometimes, I know I'll always have him to fall back on. His response was saying he loves me and he'll always be there and he thanked me as well for being there for him. Even though I knew that, it made me happy to have that reassurance of him saying it.
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Greg Talarcek
10/9/2012 06:30:00 am
The responce that I got was that they were having a bad day up untill that point and that I made their day. This made me feel that I really meant something to the person and that they know that they mean alot to me.
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Ryan Javorek
10/9/2012 07:17:52 am
The recepient of my text was very grateful for it. He said that our experiences together as well as my presence have been a pleasure to him. I believe that he has shaped my life so much because I met this particular man at a young age and grew up with him. He shaped me to become the person that I now am. I sincerely believe that I would be much less without him here.
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Michael Macuga
10/9/2012 07:24:05 am
I texted my mother. She has been the most influential person in my life since she's been around me the most. She does so many things for me, sometimes too many things, and I really do appreciate that. When I sent her the text, I go a response a couple hours later. It said something along these lines: "Michael, you just made my day. Thank you. Love you too." My mother and I, and my father and I, don't have the strongest of relationships. So this reply really brightened up my day. Unfortunately, when my mom picked me up from school that day, the first thing she said to me when I opened up the car door was, "Michael, are you on drugs?" Now, even though my mother said that, I still know she appreciates what I said in my text. She may not show it through words, but she continues to care for me intensely every day of my life.
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Brittany Castrataro
10/9/2012 07:35:05 am
The most influential person in my life would have to be my mom. She is always there for me whenever i need her and she has taught me to be a very strong individual. I have many other people in my life that are influential so thats why I also texted my dad and my best friend. They both influence me in so many ways and shape me into the person I am today. My moms response was, "Wow thanks but who made you say that???" The text made me laugh and she knew right away that I was doing it for a class. My dad's response made me feel really good. He said "I try to be a good influence to you and all your sisters...I love you to!" That text literally made my day 10x better. Even though me and my parents disagree on many things, I know they will always be by my side through tough times.
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Jaclyn Melvin
10/9/2012 07:43:09 am
My mother is the most inspirational person in my life. She always has been there for me whenever I needed her. She works hard to take care of all of the members of our family. Last Friday, I texted her to tell her that I love her and that I am grateful everything she does. Her response was, “Love you!” I believe those two words were very heartfelt. Usually, she responds to my texts with a simple “K.” I think she really appreciated my text. The fact that she responded immediately showed that she cared about what I had to say. Even if she had not texted me back, I would still know that she loves me. Whether she is helping me with my Anatomy homework or guiding me in my application process, I know she will always support me. Maybe someday I will be an inspiration for someone else, just as she has been an inspiration to me.
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Melissa Frate
10/9/2012 08:35:29 am
My brother is the most influential person in my life. I texted him in class and he responded in saying, "Awe anything! I'll always be here for you... what's a big bro to do!? Gotta watch after you. Keep doing great in school, love you, see you at home. Drive safe!" This text made me so happy. I know my brother is always there for me, but having him tell me he is, is highly reassuring. He is my best friend and I am so thankful for him. My day was instantly made better, and I felt happier than ever after he sent me that text!
Thank you for making us do this assignment.
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Kendra Zbinovec
10/9/2012 08:45:38 am
When you asked which person has influenced me the most I knew exactly who I wanted to text. My throwing coach, Byrd, has been there for me so much. Its so hard for me to explain to him how thankful I am for him becasue since throwing is such a strong sport, I don't want to look week. When I was first started to throw i knew nothing and i was pretty down on myself. It was him who regained my confidence and made me feel important. After my sisters lacrosse coach died, i tried to see how I would react to that and i know I would not handle it the way my sister did. I would literally be lost without him. when I texted him that he was the most influental person in my life and he brings joy to my day he texted back why I was texting during class, totally disreguarding my question. He was to worried that I was going to get in trouble. I texted back and told him that this is for religion and a normal person would say what an honor and thanks for picking me. I was very sassy in that text. He texted back and said thank you I appreciate it with a smilie face and he again said I just didn't want you to get in trouble. Obviously he wasn't getting the fact that it was an assignment. He has told me numerous times to focus on grades and what not. I just didn't realize he cared not only about my athletics but also about me and my grades.
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Danielle Aquila
10/9/2012 08:54:58 am
The most influential people in my life are my sister and brother. They drive me to be the person I want to be. My sister was confused at first but then she said "awwww thank you! I love you too! That was so nice!" I expected as much from my sister. I was pretty disappointed when I didn't immediately get a response from my brother, but then he called me and told me that it never sent because his phone has been acting up on him. We proceeded to have a nice conversation though about our lives, and that's really all I need from my brother. I just need him to be present in my life. So having a conversation with him is more than enough for me.
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Nicole
10/9/2012 09:48:55 am
The most influential person in my life is my Aunt Lisa. She is such a strong woman, who demonstrates all that qualities i hope to one day acquire. She accomplishes whatever she sets her mind to, and whenever she fails, she still manages to find a way of laughing at her mistakes. She makes me feel like i can do and be anyone i want in this world. My aunt has taught me some very important life lessons. i thanked her for all that she does for me and that she is so important to me. I wouldn't be the woman i am today without her loe and guidance. She replied that i was sweet and that she is so proud of me. I aspire to be the successful woman she is.
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Lydia Alexander
10/9/2012 10:06:56 am
The most influential people in my life are my mom and my dad. I have been with them my whole life and they influence every decision that I make. I love them both so much, even though at times I don't show it. When I texted my mom she was at work. She responded that it made her day and that she loves me so much. When I got home she asked me what made me send that text. That just shows how well she knows me and knows that I wouldn't say something like that on out of the blue. My dad is my role model. He was in Florida on a 4 day business trip when I texted him. He told me how much I mean to him and that he loves me more than anything. The situation was different with my dad though. I had not gotten much sleep the night before my dad left and was so unbelievably cranky the morning he was leaving, and I left for school without saying good bye to him. I felt horrible all week and all I could think about was that if something happened to my dad the last thing he would remember about me is me storming out of the house. So I was glad I got the opportunity to tell him how much he means to me when I was told to text the most influential person in my life. Both situations got me thinking though. It took Mr. Murray telling me to send those texts for me to do it. Even though I was upset over how I didn't say good bye to my dad before he left for his trip I didn't text him on my own. And my mom knew I wouldn't say something like that on my own. That is something that I should have done without being told to do it by someone else and I'm going to work on changing that.
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Steve Frandanisa
10/9/2012 10:07:53 am
The most influential person in my life is my dad. He inspires me to achieve all my goals in sports and in school. He has always been very good at motivating me and keeping me positive to help me succeed in something. His reply to my text was "i love you too bud." Later he told me how that text made his day. I felt very good after him telling me this because i usaully do not open up to my dad like this and i wanted to thank him for everything.
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Kathrine Zmina
10/9/2012 10:08:26 am
The person I texted wasn't necessarily the most influential person in my life, but I texted her because she means a lot to me. Even though we're friends, I still look up to her because she's made a lot of good decisions that I hope I can be strong enough to make as well. She didn't respond to my text though :/ I guess that might be a good thing because the last time I talked to her she wasn't doing too hot in making friends in college. Hopefully she's too busy doing crazy college stuff! Maybe she doesn't know what to say yet?...
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Julia Tuason
10/9/2012 10:49:23 am
The response I received from my text was “absolutely it is what I am here for.” In the context of the conversation that day, neither my text nor the reply read at all as stiff, and I am not surprised by it. I think in friendships or relationships where both people recognize the value of themselves to the other the influence can be altogether acknowledged, welcomed, and even expected of oneself in the role.
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Joey Greiner
10/9/2012 10:55:12 am
The most influential person in my life would have to be my bestfriend danielle. She has been in my life forever and we have helped eachother out through thick and thin. i can always count on her and she can always count on me. I texted her saying that I love her and that she is the most influential person in my life. She responded by saying she loved me too and that this text just made her days because she new i was thinking about her. Her reaction made he extremely happy because it made me realize someone cares when i text them and tell them that i love them
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caitlin nieset
10/9/2012 10:56:15 am
i'd have to say that i agree with mary lenk. I feel exactly the same as her in saying that i am the one that pushes, motivates, and ultimately lives my life. I can't say i truly "look up to someone", because i don't. i prefer to solve my own problems, learn from my own mistakes, and do everything for myself. not to say i don't enjoy working with others or that i never seek advice or praise, because i definitely do. instead, i think that i am more encouraged by special people in my life rather than inspired. encouragement, affirmation, and support are what help me to succeed, not inspiration.
my parents are the two people in my life that provide me with those three things; they are also the two people i sent my text to. they were happy to be recognized and appreciated. it felt good to be returning the favor and affirming that they are awesome parents and they play a large role in shaping me.
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Adam Kuhar
10/9/2012 11:00:06 am
My parents are the biggest influence on my life. I texted my dad thanking him for being a major influence in my life. The next day he came up to me in person, asking me whether it was a joke or if I was serious. I obviously said serious, his response was then that he himself is thankful to be privileged as being a major influence on my life. I thought to myself at first that this may be a little odd that he his thanking me for the that, but I actually feel like it is a big compliment towards me.
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Nick Frindt
10/9/2012 11:13:45 am
This most influential people in my life have been my parents. They have both directly and indirectly lead me to make nearly every decision that Ii have made in my life, shaping me along the way. When i texted them, each seperately, I told them exactly this. My mom first replied, asking if it was one of my friends joking with her. She then sent me another text, though, telling me that she loves me and is very proud of me. My dad said the same things as her second text did. They also both thanked me for being a good child to them and listening to their encouragement in decision making throughout my life.
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Daniel McIlroy
10/9/2012 11:18:27 am
In my life, my parents have been the most influential for me. They have always been there for me and are always trying to help me grow to be a better person. I texted both my mom and my dad telling them that they were both incredibly influential on my life and that I loved them. My dad responded "Who made you feel guilty?" which really made me laugh because he always adds humor to every situation. My mom responded "Thank you. What a sweet and special text. I'm so blessed to have you for a son. I love you!" I really liked this text because a lot of times me and my mom can get into our fights but I know that at the end of the day, we both love each other. This exercise really was fun and helped to strengthen my relationships.
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Alex Pirc
10/9/2012 11:22:22 am
The most influential person in my life is my mom. When I texted her she replied, "Love you too alex. you're a great kid.... xoxoxo". I can always go to her for advice, and she is always right. She is a great role model for me and has shown me how to live a good life.
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Jenny Raguz
10/9/2012 11:35:33 am
There are many people in my life who are a big influence on me. My brother, Mark has always been someone I could look up to no matter what the cirumstance. I texted Mark and thanked him for being such a great influencial person in my life and that i love and miss him. Mark lives in Cincinnati and recently got a new nursing job where he works night shifts. I knew when I sent the message that he would be asleep since he worked the night before, so i wasn't expecting a reply for a couple hours. When he did repsond hours later, he said "You're welcome. Thanks for being a great sister and friend." I can tell he just woke up because his text messages are usually much more cheerful. But the fact that he did repsond (for him right away) means a lot to me and saying I'm more than just a sister, but also his friend really meant a lot to me. Simply doing this easy act of kindness to let someone know how you feel is a win win for everyone because in the end you feel happy too by the other person's reaction.
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Julia Corello
10/9/2012 11:42:16 am
The most influencial person in my life is my older sister, Katie. When I texted her I said that she was the most influencial person in my life, that she was my role model, and that I love her. Her response was, "Aww Juls! I love you too! Is everything ok?" She later told me that I made her day with that text. We are really close, however since she lives in another state at school, We do not really stay in contact with eachother like I wish we would. Her reaction showed me that she appreciates me as much as I appreciate her and that she cares alot about me. I love my sister to death and strive to be like her. Since I sent that text, we have been cathcing up with eachother and talking more often. She is my best friend forever.
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Meghan Anderson
10/9/2012 11:56:09 am
I texted my parents and my bestfriend. They have all made such a big impact in my life and i could not be more thankful. I look up to them more than anyone. My parents response was they love me too and that there so proud of me. My bestfriends response was that she will always be there for me no matter what. It felt good to see how much the people I care about, care for me the same way.
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Olivia Coleman
10/9/2012 11:58:08 am
my dads reaction was suprised and it made his day. it made me feel good to let my dad know that I love him and appreciate him.
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Daniel Kling
10/9/2012 12:00:36 pm
I sent my text to my dad. He moved to China last year and so I only get to see him in person every 6th or 7th week for two weeks. In my message I thanked him for playing a huge role in my life and referenced a story that he told me before he left last. He replied "Glad it helped and miss you too." This text meant a lot to me because he took time out of his busy schedule to reply during his work day. Even though the message was short, I can feel that he misses our entire family and that he is homesick. Because of this fact I try to spend as much time as I can with him when he is home and try to involve him in everything for those 2 weeks.
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Natalie DiChiro
10/9/2012 12:47:04 pm
When asked to text the most influential person in my life I texted one of my best friends. However, I have many influential people in my life. I wish I could've messaged them all how thankful I am for them. It's just hard to choose just one. I know that I texted only one but there are so many. I'm probably sounding so repetitive right now but honestly I cannot think of just one person who influences me. All of my family and my friends do. I'm thankful for every single one of them. In a way just choosing one person bothered me just because it was hard to choose just one person without feeling like I was leaving so many out.
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Billy Varcho
10/9/2012 12:49:22 pm
The person who has had the met influence on my life was my mom. When I sent her the task she asked if everything was alright, and "its my pleasure being your mom! U r and awesome person billy". This meant a lot to me and also helped me to realize that I don't acknowledge some of the most important people in my life as much as I should.
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Niarra Ogbonna
10/9/2012 12:54:51 pm
I sent my text to my bestfriend, because i have known them for so long and because of that they have made a huge impact in my life. I thanked them for changing and impacting my life so much. My friend was suprised by the message, and was at first confused, but eventually said your welcome and thank you for doing the same in my life. This made me happy to realize that i could impact someone's life which has made a huge difference in mine.
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Chuckiy Bement
10/9/2012 01:08:23 pm
I don't believe I have a "most influential person" but I definitely do have people who have greatly impacted my life. I chose to text close friends from far away, my friend from my old school Chase, and my brother. Some were baffled as to why I randomly sent them a message thanking them for being there for me and being a blessing to my life, while others offered to reconnect sometime and set up some plans to do so.
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Anthony Radosky
10/9/2012 01:14:15 pm
I sent my text to my cousin whom has been a very influential person in my life. He has been a big brother figure in my life thus has helped to shape me into the person I am today. His initial reaction to my text was are you mocking me. I replied no I seriously mean it and he replied hes happy to have me in his life. I had a sense of joy and happiness when I read this because it felt good to get a sense of appreciation from someone.
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Nick Fuerst
10/9/2012 01:38:09 pm
I texted a best friend that unfortunately wen to college this year and I was left to what I felt was to fend for myself. Her reply to my text was "aww that just made my day:) I love u too and I can't wait to see you again!" Of course I felt good about this also gave me another emotion. Knowing what I brought out in my best friend just makes me want to e a better person for her. It makes me want to bring out the best all around person I can be so that I can be the best for her. My plan is to shock her on what I have become while she was away so I can keep my best friend closer.
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Tori Gorom
10/9/2012 01:52:32 pm
When I was given this assignment I immediately knew who I would text, my mom. I truly don't know what I would do without her. She's always there for me to calm me down and give me advice. After she got my text she replied, "Thanks for making my day!" It made me feel really good to brighten up my mom's day and give back to a person who has helped me through so much. I always forget to thank her for what she does for me and this text allowed me to show her how much I appreciate her.
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Lauren Beck
10/9/2012 02:39:04 pm
I can answer the question of who the most influential person in my life is very easily: my mom. I do not know where I would be without her. She is my mother, my guide, and most importantly, my friend. I can talk her about anything, and when I say anything I literally mean anything. I cherish the relationship I have with my mom more than anything because of that. And I can only hope thy when I have children one day, I have the bond with them that my mom and I have. She is one of my best friends. And I can always count on her. Her reply to the text was "I love you too Laur! My baby! And wow thank you!" I love my mom and am blessed to have the one that I do. I wouldn't want any other mom, cuz I consider mine to be the absolute best anyone could ever ask for.
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Mike Mandac
10/9/2012 02:58:03 pm
I texted my two best friends, Chris and Jennifer. I've grown up with these people in my neighborhood and over the past 11 years, we've become very close. Hanging out with them is something I've come to look forward to; it's time when I always feel comfortable and relaxed. They've seen me at my worst and they also know my best side. When I'm confused or upset about something, I can feel confident that they'll listen to me without judgement and offer good advice. I respect them for their accomplishments and the people that they've grown to be. When I text them, they were a little confused why I would be expressing my appreciation "out of the blue" and at that hour of the morning. But, they were grateful to hear my compliments on the quality of our friendship and what it means to me.
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cassie kresnye
10/9/2012 08:55:47 pm
The person I chose to thank for influencing my life did not actually surprise me in the least by their answer. I sent the message to my brother, Andrew, who in turn responded "how lovely" in a sarcastic sense. Would I accept anything other then a sarcastic response from him? Nope, because even though we may hate each others' faces on the outside, he uses sarcasm to cover any actual emotion, so in a way that was the best answer I could have received from him. So, I suppose, I was surprised that he answered that, because I know he cares then.
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Shireen Cain
10/9/2012 09:12:32 pm
The person I chose was my bestfriend Abbi. She has influenced me the most in m life. The text i got back from her was, "I love you bean!" She never questioned the fact that she got a random text at 9:30 in the morning, explaining how thankful i am to have her in my life. I always tell her how much i appreciate everything she does for me, and how much I love her, so the text she sent back to be did not surprise me at all.
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Erica lam
10/9/2012 10:16:37 pm
I texted my parents, "thank you for always being there for me. I love you." I didn't expect a response from them, or if they did text back, I thoughtthey would say ,"why did you wake me up?" I didn't get a resonate from my dad, but my mom replied with,"do I have to pick up your sister?" when I got home, my mom asked me if everything wad alright, because we don't always talk like that to each other. I wasn't surprised at their reactions because we aren't a affectionate family where we text each other our feelings.
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Tim Helton
10/9/2012 10:51:23 pm
I texted my dad and got a response right away. I was surprise he texted back because I knew he was in an important meeting at the time. It made me feel good that he stopped what we was doing and texted me back. I told him how much I appreciated him and how much of a positive influence he ha been on my life. He texted me back telling me to keep doing what I'm doing and that he is proud of me.
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Mark Malone
10/9/2012 10:51:33 pm
The most influential person I'm my life that I chose to text was my mother. She does everything for me and my family and never asks for anything in return. My mom texted me back quickly and told me she loved me and that I was the light of her world. This response made me feel loved and appreciated because I try to please my mom with everything I do.
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Nick Distaulo
10/9/2012 11:44:45 pm
I texted my good friend Zach who I have been friends with for 13 years. I texted him saying I'm glad you are my friend and that I can talk to him about anything. His response was: thanks man I'm glad we are friends, and I got your back.
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Mike Brown
10/10/2012 01:14:26 am
The most important person to me right now. She does so much for me and most of the time I do not take time to even think about it. After i sent the text my mom said that i was her favorite person in the world and she loved me and right then I fully understood that I feel the same way about her. Without her I would have nothing right now.
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anthony varcelli
10/10/2012 01:15:36 am
My text from class went to my mom. my mom was having a rough day and she loved the text. she said she loved everything about the text because it made her smile and "made her day". she then went on to say how much i mean to her after i told her how much she meant to me. the rest of the day we texted about old times and even later at night we talk more. me and my mom are very very close but dont really show it. so that text made us come together and helped her realize how much she means to me
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Michael Somrak
10/10/2012 01:40:13 am
I had texted my father saying thank you for being such an influence in my life and I do not know if I would be the same man that I am today without his guidance and role as a father in my life. I told him I loved him and that even though sometimes I not say it I truly do mean that I love him. He told me "We are extremely proud of the person you are. While Mom & I have given you guidance, you are to be commended for taking it to heart & using it. We will always be here to guide you, even when you don't think you need it." This text I received from my father really showed me that my family really does care for me and that I know they will always be there for me and always accept me for who I am and there impact on my life has been huge in so many ways
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Joseph Rhodes
10/10/2012 01:42:39 am
I texted my mom saying thanks for everything and how she has raised me well and that I love her. She text me back saying how unexpected It was and saying that she loves me. When I saw my mother that night she guessed it was a religion project but she went on the say how much she loved it.
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Obinna Unichi
10/10/2012 01:54:05 am
My Mother has been the biggest influence of my life and supports every decision I make. She is always there for me and never judges me for the wrong choices I make. During class I texted my mother saying "I wanna thank you for caring and loving me even though I mess up a lot. But thank you for everything you have provided me with . I will always love you see ya later". With me saying this made her very happy and she said her baby is becoming a man. She also said its God's well that everything is possible.
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Billy Molle
10/10/2012 03:03:34 am
My mom has been the biggest influence in my life. After my dad died, she became the real support group for my family and she did her best to hold us together. She's had a very difficult life but has already managed to lead by example in our family life. When I sent the text to her, she told me how much it brightened her day and that she loved me very much.
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jonah cook
10/10/2012 06:48:44 am
I feel that the most influential people in my life are my grandfather and my mom. My grandpa has always been able to be a strong support system in my life. When i texted him he replied back to me how much he loves me and that he hopes to see me soon. My mom has amazing by trying to get me ready for college. She has driven me hours and miles away for college visits and is always there when i need help. When i texted my mom she replied back how much my text helped to brighten her day.
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Jimmy Vanek
10/10/2012 07:16:20 am
I have been blessed with so many wonderful people in my life that it was very hard for me to pick out person who has influenced me the most. I sent about 5 texts to my parents, cousins, sister, and close friend. The favorite response I received was from my boy Billy Jelenic. He told me that "I love you bro. It's been so busy and I wish I had free time. If you want to come down to csu anytime, you are always welcome :)" Billy has always been a good friend and now that we are at different schools it is tough to remember to text him. It was good to hear from him and I know that my boy Trey will always be there.....I'm not even going to mention what Zbiegien said #FLEX.
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Mariah Salloum
10/10/2012 09:19:08 am
It was kind of hard for me to pick just one person, but I am glad with who I chose to send the text to. I chose one of my best friends from school. I told her thank you for all she had done for me. I also told her that she inspires me, motivates me, and has a big impact on who I am becoming. She has always been there for me, through thick and thin, and I am so grateful for her. Her reaction was "Aww thats so sweet:) I hope I can always have an impact on you:)". This simple text and response was a moment of happiness and comfort for me. I felt God's love through her. Thank God for the gift of friendship!
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Kathrine Zmina
10/10/2012 10:55:20 am
Haha, I was right, the person I texted didn't know how to respond! She said "I haven't forgotten about you I was just so stunned by your text that I wanted to relish in it for a couple of days, really selfish of me!" I'm really glad she texted back I didn't realize it would mean so much to hear from me :) Definitely made my entire week better, I think the delay was great because when I got it I was super stressed because of homework. It was just the inspiration I needed :P
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Raj Khosla
10/10/2012 01:22:03 pm
The most influential person in my life is my sister. My sister has overcome many obstacles in her life and yet keeps her priorities straight at all times, she never looses sight of her dreams. She has the most determination that I have ever seen in someone. When I sent her the text her response was: she said she cried and told me that I am the most influential person in her life also.
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Nicole Orlando
10/11/2012 06:13:13 am
There are three extremely important influences in my life: my mom, my Nono, an my boyfriend. My mom always accepts me to be who I am, she never discourages me and is constantly telling me how much faith she has in me. She doesn't necessarily "push me" but she realizes the potential I have in myself, so when I do mess up, I know. Also, my Nono is someone who influences me. He's basically the reason I want to be a nurse. He's gone through two types of cancer and is now diabetic. I've seen him at his worst and his distrust in doctors. I'd love to be the one person who he can not only trust, but be healed by. My boyfriend is also someone who influences me in numerous positive ways. He too knows I have the capabilities to do y bet and is always telling me to push myself more and never sell myself short. I texted y mom and my boyfriend then called my Nono later that day. My mom cried and told me she was surprised, while my boyfriend told me it was random. My Nono told me he loved me and he knows I'm guna be someone great when I'm older. All responses meant something to me and I realized I need to tell these people in my life and others that I love them more each day.
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Chris Capretta
10/11/2012 08:17:12 am
The person that influences me is my sister. When i texted her it took her 5 hours to text me back. When she replied she thought i was druk or on drugs i had to prove to her that i wasnt. When i proved to her that i wasnt high or drunk she said she loves me and cant wait to see me. We started talking about how im going to go visit her soo and how we should keep up with eachother more often. This text has helped me expand and depen my realationship with her.
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Diana Muzina
10/13/2012 03:19:33 am
When I first thought of who is the most influential person in my life, that first person who came to my mind is someone who is no longer with me. It seems like it was just yesterday, but four years ago my ballet teacher, whom I was extremely close to, was murdered. She was someone who always believed and supported me even when I didn't believe in myself. When I was only 9 years old, she saw talent in me and moved me into a class with high school students. That was the first time that I truly had confidence in my own abilities. She always devoted extra attention to me, and treated me like an equal. She took my input on choreography and gave me special roles in dances. She is someone who has shaped me into who I am. She taught me self confidence and made me strong. I miss her everyday, but in everything I do I know that she is watching over me. I will never give up on dancing, because I know she would not want me to. Unfortunately I can not send her a text, but I can send her my prayers.
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Haley Meadows
10/14/2012 10:20:07 am
I never got a reply to the text message I sent. I was pretty much expecting it, so I'm not too bummed about it. I think sending the message definitely gave me some closure on a lot of things and I guess it just kind of felt good knowing that they at least read it and know where I stand, even if I didn't get a reply.